Marriage & Couples Counseling — Available via Telehealth in Pittsburgh

Marriage Counseling in Pittsburgh, PA

Your Relationship Deserves More Than Just Surviving.

You love each other — but something has shifted. The same arguments keep happening. The distance keeps growing. Marriage counseling gives you a structured, safe space to break the cycle and rebuild something stronger. Available via secure telehealth for Pittsburgh couples.

Couples Specialists  ·  Free 15-Min Consultation  ·  Accepts Highmark, UPMC, Aetna & more  ·  Secure Telehealth
Couples Specialists on Staff
HIPAA-Compliant Telehealth
Serving Pittsburgh & Allegheny County
Free 15-Min Consultation
Trauma-Informed Couples Care
We Understand Where You Are

When Love Isn’t Enough on Its Own

Most couples don’t seek counseling because they’ve failed — they seek it because they care enough to fight for what they have. But getting here often means months or years of the same patterns repeating without resolution.

  • Every conversation about the same issue ends the same way — in conflict, silence, or both
  • You feel more like roommates than partners — the emotional and physical connection has faded
  • Trust has been broken — through infidelity, dishonesty, or repeated disappointments
  • One or both of you walks on eggshells — afraid that any conversation could explode
  • A major life event — loss, illness, a new baby, career stress — has put your relationship under strain
  • You’ve tried talking it out on your own, but keep going in circles without resolution
“Seeking marriage counseling is not a sign your relationship is failing. It’s a sign you value it enough to fight for it.”
Darin King, licensed couples counselor providing marriage counseling in Pittsburgh PA via telehealth
Darin King Counseling Pittsburgh office — marriage counseling and couples therapy for Pittsburgh PA residents
Marriage Counseling in Pittsburgh

Couples Therapy That Goes Beneath the Surface

At Darin King Counseling, we don’t just help couples manage conflict — we help you understand the patterns beneath it. Most relationship struggles are rooted in unmet needs, attachment wounds, or communication styles developed long before you met each other.

Our trauma-informed approach to couples counseling brings this deeper understanding into the room. We work with both partners to identify what’s really driving the disconnect — and build the practical tools and emotional safety needed to change it.

Whether you’re navigating communication breakdown, rebuilding after betrayal, or simply wanting to strengthen an already good relationship, we provide structured, evidence-based support that works.

  • Break out of repeating conflict cycles
  • Rebuild emotional and physical intimacy
  • Develop communication skills that actually work
  • Rebuild trust after betrayal or repeated disappointments
  • Navigate major life transitions together
  • Build a stronger foundation for your future together
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Common Reasons Couples Seek Help

Marriage Counseling Can Help With

You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from couples therapy. Many couples come to counseling proactively — to strengthen what’s already good, or to navigate a specific challenge together.

Communication Breakdown

When conversations consistently escalate, shut down, or go nowhere — couples counseling helps you develop healthier ways to express needs and hear each other.

Infidelity & Betrayal

Rebuilding trust after infidelity or betrayal is possible — but it requires structure, honesty, and professional guidance. Many couples emerge stronger than before.

Emotional Distance

Feeling more like roommates than partners. Loss of intimacy, connection, or shared purpose. Counseling helps identify the barriers and rebuild closeness.

Parenting Conflicts

Disagreements about parenting styles, discipline, or the strain a new baby places on a relationship are among the most common reasons couples seek support.

Financial Stress

Money is one of the leading causes of relationship conflict. Counseling helps couples develop shared values, communication strategies, and financial teamwork.

Life Transitions

Major changes — relocation, job loss, illness, loss of a parent, retirement — can strain even strong relationships. Counseling helps couples navigate change together.

Pre-Marital Counseling

Building a strong foundation before marriage. Pre-marital counseling helps couples identify potential challenges and develop tools before they become problems.

Trauma & Its Impact on Relationships

Individual trauma often spills into relationships in ways neither partner fully understands. Our trauma-informed approach addresses this connection directly.

Strengthening a Good Relationship

You don’t have to be in crisis to benefit from couples therapy. Many couples come to build on what’s already working and deepen their connection intentionally.

Evidence-Based Approaches

How We Approach Marriage Counseling

Our couples counselors draw from evidence-based approaches proven to produce real, lasting change in relationships.

Evidence-Based

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT is one of the most researched couples therapy approaches available, with a 70-75% success rate. It focuses on identifying and reshaping negative interaction patterns and building secure emotional bonds between partners. EFT helps couples understand the deeper emotional needs driving conflict and develop more responsive, connected ways of relating.

Evidence-Based

Gottman Method Informed Therapy

Based on decades of relationship research, Gottman-informed therapy helps couples identify the specific patterns — criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling — that predict relationship breakdown. Sessions build practical skills for communication, conflict management, and deepening friendship and intimacy between partners.

Our Specialty

Trauma-Informed Couples Therapy

When individual trauma is affecting the relationship — through triggers, emotional reactivity, withdrawal, or difficulty with trust and intimacy — standard couples therapy isn’t always enough. Our trauma-informed approach addresses both the relationship dynamics and the underlying trauma together, creating more lasting change for both partners.

Practical Skills

Communication & Conflict Resolution

Practical, skills-based tools for how to have difficult conversations without them escalating, how to express needs clearly, how to listen without defensiveness, and how to repair after conflict. Skills learned in session translate directly into daily life between appointments.

The Research on Couples Therapy

Marriage Counseling Works — When You Work It

Evidence-based couples therapy produces measurable, lasting improvements in relationship satisfaction, communication, and emotional connection.

70%
of couples report significant improvement after Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in clinical research
90%
of couples show measurable improvement in relationship satisfaction with Gottman-informed therapy
2x
more likely to stay together when couples seek therapy early rather than waiting until crisis point
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Virtual Marriage Counseling for Pittsburgh Couples

Scheduling couples therapy when two people have different work schedules, family responsibilities, and commutes can feel impossible. Virtual marriage counseling removes those barriers — both partners can attend from wherever they are, making consistency much easier to maintain.

  • Both Partners Attend from HomeNo coordinating travel, no shared commute stress — each partner can join from their own comfortable space
  • Flexible SchedulingMorning, afternoon, and evening appointments available — making it easier for busy Pittsburgh couples to stay consistent
  • Complete PrivacyNo chance encounters in waiting rooms. Sessions are fully encrypted and HIPAA-compliant
  • Proven EffectiveResearch shows virtual couples therapy produces outcomes equivalent to in-person sessions for most presenting concerns
Virtual marriage counseling is especially well suited for couples where one or both partners travel frequently for work, have young children at home, or have schedules that make in-person appointments difficult to coordinate consistently.
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Getting Started

How to Begin Marriage Counseling in Pittsburgh

Starting couples therapy is a significant step. We make the process as smooth as possible.

1

Reach Out

One or both partners can reach out by phone, text, or contact form. We respond within one business day.

2

Free Consultation

A free 15-minute call to discuss your relationship concerns and determine the right fit.

3

First Session

Your first session focuses on understanding both partners’ perspectives and establishing shared goals.

4

Build Together

Ongoing sessions build skills, deepen understanding, and create lasting positive change in your relationship.

Insurance & Fees

Marriage Counseling Covered by Most Major Insurance Plans

We accept the following insurance plans. Self-pay options are also available.

UPMC Health Plan Highmark Blue Cross Blue Shield Aetna Cigna United Healthcare / Optum Self-Pay $150/session
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Your Relationship Is Worth
Fighting For.

The fact that you’re here means you still care. Marriage counseling gives you the tools, the space, and the support to turn that care into real, lasting change. Let’s get started.

Or call us: (724) 268-0223

Your Pittsburgh Couples Counselors

Meet the Team

Our licensed counselors specialize in couples therapy and bring a trauma-informed perspective to every relationship.

Darin King LPC, marriage counselor and couples therapist in Pittsburgh PA
Darin King, LPC
Clinical Director & Founder
Couples · Marriage · Trauma · EMDR · Relationships
Madison Dulion, couples counselor at Darin King Counseling Pittsburgh
Madison Dulion
Licensed Counselor
Couples · Relationships · Trauma · Anxiety · Communication
Tiffany Hernandez-Broome, couples counselor at Darin King Counseling Pittsburgh
Tiffany Hernandez-Broome
Licensed Counselor
Couples · Family Systems · Trauma · Life Transitions
Jordan Futrell, couples counselor at Darin King Counseling Pittsburgh
Jordan Futrell
Licensed Counselor
Couples · Communication · Grief · Anxiety · Depression
Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions About Marriage Counseling

Yes — when both partners are willing to engage. Research shows that 70-90% of couples who complete evidence-based couples therapy report significant improvements in relationship satisfaction. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman-informed therapy specifically have strong research records. The key factors are both partners’ willingness to participate and consistent attendance. Couples who seek help earlier typically see better outcomes than those who wait until the relationship is in severe crisis.
This is very common. If your partner is reluctant, individual therapy can still be valuable — working on your own patterns, communication skills, and responses can create positive shifts in the relationship dynamic. Sometimes one partner starting therapy motivates the other to join. If your partner becomes open to couples therapy, we can transition into joint sessions. Reach out and we can discuss the best approach for your specific situation.
It depends on the presenting concerns and your goals. Couples working on communication and connection may see meaningful improvement in 8-16 sessions. Rebuilding trust after infidelity or addressing deep-rooted patterns typically takes longer. Many couples continue with less frequent maintenance sessions after reaching their initial goals. Your therapist will discuss realistic timelines after your first few sessions.
Yes — though the process is challenging and requires commitment from both partners. Research shows that many couples who work through infidelity in therapy report stronger relationship satisfaction afterward than before the affair. The process involves honest disclosure, accountability, genuine remorse, and structured steps to rebuild trust. It is not a quick fix, but for couples where both partners are committed to working through it, the outcomes can be transformative.
Coverage for couples therapy varies by insurance plan. Many plans cover it when there is a clinical diagnosis involved. We accept UPMC, Highmark Blue Cross Blue Shield, Aetna, Cigna, and United Healthcare/Optum. Self-pay sessions are $150 per session. We recommend contacting us before your first appointment so we can help verify your specific benefits and discuss your options.
Yes. Research consistently shows virtual couples therapy produces outcomes equivalent to in-person sessions. Many couples find telehealth more convenient, which helps them stay consistent — and consistency is one of the strongest predictors of positive outcomes in couples therapy. Both partners can join from wherever they are, removing scheduling and logistical barriers that often cause couples to drop out of in-person therapy.
Yes. Pre-marital counseling is one of the most valuable investments a couple can make. It helps you identify potential areas of conflict before they become problems, develop communication and conflict resolution skills, and align on values and expectations around finances, family, parenting, and more. Many couples who complete pre-marital counseling report higher long-term relationship satisfaction.
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